Another thing that she said during this conversation was a question...she asked me "how are you so strong and things do not bother you?" I answered her honestly and said "I am not as strong as you think, but I do not stay stuck on the bad circumstances." This is the only way I have known to live life. I have not had a rainbow-filled, candy-coated life. I have had family problems, educational issues, financial set-backs, incarceration, and many other things that some are fortunate not to ever go through. The difference between many and myself is that I did not let these problems deter me from continuing to grow. When I find myself in a new situation that I do not like, I start looking for a bright side and once I find it, that is all I concentrate on. Not that I avoid the bad<----we have to deal with the bad, but we do not have to let it take over our lives.
Breaking down today's messages to you. In the first part of today's post I basically want you to walk away understanding that we sometimes are the only ones to blame for our troubles, the moment we acknowledge them, we can start working on changing the circumstances. We are much more powerful and in control than we give ourselves credit for. The second part of today's post I want you to walk away thinking that we do not have to dwell and be miserable because of a bad circumstance we are going through. We have a lot of good things happening around us and to us on a daily basis. We need to concentrate on that and break away from the negative mind frame. I say this because it is what I do and it works. We have to work at being happy or we can stay miserable, but at the end of the day only you can make that choice and only you have to live with it.
Ms.Breezy
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